I read all the time how important it is to take care of the me in 
Mommy.  I think I do a decent job because of running, play dates, and occasional girlfriend outings.  But, none of these things really take me away from my kiddos...maybe a couple of hours here and there. 
This past weekend I was given the gift of time to me.  Drew is amazing!  He did not hesitate when I asked about going to my sister's for the weekend to hang out and to race.  He said go just like he always does.   He knows me and he knows if I ask it must be important.  And it was.  So I received a great gift this past weekend.  Time for me.  Time with my nieces.  Time with Kelsey.  Time to run without the pressure of being "on" as soon as I was finished.  It was a beautiful gift!  I treasured every moment!  I could not be more thankful!!
I prepared food, made lists, and put out clothing before I left.  Drew is an amazing Daddy and I knew they would have a great weekend!  I managed to turn off all things Mommy and was just me.  I did worry about Emma at her gymnastics evaluations on Friday.  I worried about Samuel at his soccer on Saturday.  But, that was it!  I was just me being a runner, a sister, and an aunt for the rest of the weekend.  Bliss!
I shopped with Kelsey and did not have to worry about children refusing to sit in carts or running through aisles.  I played with my nieces without my kids wanting my attention.  I slept without wondering if anyone would wake me during the night.  I went out for dinner!  It was peaceful, refreshing, and renewing!
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| We saved this baby bird...poor thing! | 
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| We played at the park | 
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| Kelsey and Scott...date night with me! | 
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| Me and Kels with the Annapolis harbor in the background | 
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| Sweet girls...Hanna, Leah, and Maya | 
Now it is back to reality in a big way, but it is all good.  I feel like a better mommy.  I used my time away to focus on me and now I am ready and want to focus on my kiddos and Drew!
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